Vocassio Love

The 4 love modes

Zen, Radar, Airplane, Intermittent: four ways of loving and attaching. Find out yours.

Zen mode

The Zen mode matches a secure attachment style: you're comfortable with both closeness and independence, you say what you need easily and you trust without being suspicious for nothing.

Radar mode

The Radar mode matches an anxious attachment style: you invest fully, you need regular reassurance and you feel the highs and lows of a relationship intensely.

Airplane mode

The Airplane mode matches an avoidant attachment style: you value your independence, handle your emotions on your own and need to catch your breath when things move too fast.

Intermittent mode

The Intermittent mode matches a fearful-avoidant attachment style: you want to get closer but fear being hurt, and you swing between needing closeness and wanting to protect yourself.

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