Vocassio LoveIntermittent mode
The Intermittent mode matches a fearful-avoidant attachment style: you want to get closer but fear being hurt, and you swing between needing closeness and wanting to protect yourself.
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How it shows up
- You find it hard to trust, both yourself and others.
- You want to be close to someone, but it scares you at the same time.
- You swing between moving closer and closing up, often without warning.
- In a conflict, your reaction is hard to predict: sometimes you look for support, sometimes you push away the person trying to help.
- You fear being abandoned, but also fear running out of air in the relationship.
- You need time and a slow pace to feel safe, with no pressure.
3 tips to live this mode better
- Notice which reflex (getting closer or protecting yourself) is dominant in the moment, before acting.
- Remember a slow, steady pace is stronger than a rush followed by a retreat.
- Pick one trusted person to voice your doubts to instead of keeping them to yourself.
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The other modes
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